So for those of you out there who are going through this, or have come out the other side, is this now when I apply LRT? and how do I do this with 3 boys who we have 50/50 shared custody of? we have one car between us and I know I'm asking the same questions I asked at the very beginning, but this bd puts me in a whole new level. do I keep being his best friend (his words tonight) and keep up with what I was attempting to do before, I don't want to give up but I really don't know what to do now.