Thank you for the advice. I have asked a couple times and you are right, the response has been very vague and not helpful!
I have begun changing things: keeping a better house, losing weight and exercising. I'm trying to GAL, but this is hard when all your friends are married with kids, no one to really go out with in the evenings ( not that I really could since I ALWAYS have the kids), and building a really strong relationship with my kids. I'm staying as positive as I can around H. I don't engage in his attempts to argue and have stopped initiating conversations with him.
I understand this is a marathon and I must have patience. When this happened 3 years ago, it was a quick turn around. Obviously too quick since we are here again. My LC and I broke down our R and she feels he has not come out of MLC yet...that means we are only at year 3 of who knows how many!
Atsbaby M:36 H:35 T: 19 M:12 S:11 D:9 BD: 5/4/14 Proof of OW 8/13/14-love note from her 8/19 admits OW 8/22/14 files D w/o telling me 9/20/14 Says he wants to reconcile
