Thanks cq1, pilot & loualea for the great advice. And thanks again Ben.

I told him "sure, sounds good" and he immediately wanted to meet up tonight.

I have a very busy week so probably it will have to wait until next week anyway. I'll keep you posted, I'm sure I'll need some help before I meet him to get some calm detachment.

Thanks again for all your tips and support.
Hugs, Lisa


Me: 34 H: 30
M: 4 years
BD: 6/15/14
He moved out 6/30/14
OW1: EA then PA after BD
Now he's dating multiple OWs
I'm over it and moving on.