Sounds like you turned a bad day into a good one at the end. You both seemed to come together and agree to work on each of your own faults exposed during the argument.

Best of luck as you continue!

Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16