Hi Hope, I don't have any advice just support. I'm sorry you have to deal with his stupidity. Just keep doing what is best for your D and you. His ridiculous demands aren't anything to do with your D's best interest but him throwing a tantrum because he wants only his way and you aren't taking his BS! What a rude awakening your H will have eventually! You are such a strong woman and worth a hell of a lot more than you are getting now. Hang in there
Me 34 M 2.5 (Both 2nd M) My kids-D 17,S 16,S 12 BD 2/14 D final 7/2014