H is acting really stupid. I don't know another word for it. I asked, calmly and with research to back it up, for an injunction in our decree barring either of us from introducing D7 to someone we are dating for at least 6 months from the date the D is final. H completely freaked out. He said that this is about trying to control him and he is already planning to introduce them and the OW just wants to be D7's friend. Ummm, no. It's too soon. Her therapist believes it is too soon. So, H sent me an email saying that since I was trying to control him, he wanted to return the favor. He says he wants receipts for everything I spend child support money on. He wants something in our paperwork saying that our D7 must eat dinner by 7 pm every night (which is impossible due to some of her activities). He also is demanding that the decree say that D7 can't watch TV during the school week and can only watch for an hour a day during the summer. That one's pretty funny since it's always been MY rule that he thought was unnecessary and refused to enforce.
I'm not sure what his rush is. Can he truly just not see what is best for our D7 because of his adolescent infatuation with OW?