2bh I think you are handling things with your H really awesome! I read so many similarities in our sitch, I too had become " absent" at least emotionally for awhile and caught in a cycle of negativity. It coincided with onset of H MLC so who knows if we both made each other worse but I definitely took things for granted.
I hope you have a wonderful vacation with your son- I know how hard it is to keep up the DB face continuously- it's good to get a break and just be. Enjoy!
Me 41 H 40 M 20 T 23 S 19,16, 8 D 13 BD1 dec 2012 not sure going to work BD2 sep 2013 seeking a D Filed oct 2013, D Feb 2015 Life is about daring greatly, about being in the arena- Brene Brown