I have decided to not argue with the wife anymore.

I am not trying to influence her decisions anymore.

Also trying to focus on me.

I do realize via the MC that when I set a boundary and don't follow through it's a lie or at worst it's control.

If I set a boundary I have to stick to it.

I am also really trying to not ask controlling questions or make demands.

W 53 H 51, S 16, S 21
33 years M 28
DD 3 Feb 11, 2014
S21 and His Fiancée move in with us 8/14
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