She says she's conflicted (part 2)

[25yearsmlc]

"I said he was a danger to s16."

How so?

Personally, I don't know how much the IC is good at helping you control your anger and control issues. You still have them show up here alot.

He told my wife that my S21 was a punk because he wrote a letter to the OM.

When WAW told OM that she would not leave until S16 was out of high school he told my wife that she should leave my S16 or he would talk to my son and convince him he was a better man then me.

Would you let a guy like this near your kids?

You missed the point of Bond's post to you. We are asking about your control and anger issues and how you are managing them.

B/C you don't seem to be. And your answer was another attack on OM.

Frankly, I think convincing your son that he's a better man than you, makes more sense to me than a restraining order. Seems to me he wants his reality to be seen as the truth, and to him, it is.

I don't see him as a danger to your son, although I can imagine he irritates the heck out of you.

But I see this as more about control issues of yours.

So, what are you doing, specifically, to handle yourself better and to gain better control over yourself, which means in part, letting go of trying to control others?