MrBond, I've lost 40 lbs, started getting after household chores w/out being asked, tried to minimize the pleading, reasoning, etc with her. I'm trying to stay out of fights, but she'll pull me in sometimes. I'm just doing everything I can to 180 and get her to see that my eyes are open now and I'm digging in to do the work. She hasn't moved out YET, so this far she's given me the gift of time. If only I hadn't wasted 2 months.
Me: 34 W:33 T: 10 M: 6 S: 6 D: 5 BD: 5/14 Still together(ish) Not giving up: 7/14 D talk has slowed, a lot. Gradually working on things together. Still separate bedrooms. Slow and Steady wins the race.
