She says she's conflicted (part 2)

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"I thought part if the DB strategy was not to throw her out or move out of the home."

if i remember correctly, this was a legal issue - if you move out you could be giving up legal ownership of the house. if you throw her out it could be used against you as if you're abusive.

We are joint owners on the mortgage according to her lawyer and mine neither of us can force the other out.

I do have a restraint order that prevents OM from coming within 500 feet of our house. I said he was a danger to s16.