when I was first going through everything, I would let my bff in on what was happening. She was the only one I told the nitty gritty to.
When I had to go meet ex for whatever reason, we decided on a call time. She would call...the phone would ring...I could answer or let it go to voicemail.
After 30 mins, she would call again.
It always made me feel good to know I had someone in my corner and it gave me an easy out if I wanted one. All I had to do was answer my phone and she would ask...do you need to go...and I would answer yes or know and could then, honestly say...BFF called and I need to go.
if not, it went to voicemail and she would leave me an encouraging message