Yes, please tell us specifically what HE would say if he were here and we asked him what problems existed.
And then you can feel free to tell us how YOU saw it differently and what you are willing to work on. Of course there is hope, you are quite new to this.
And DO READ THE BOOK(S) b/c they'll help you no matter what stage you are in.
Don't talk yourself out of working on this,
and don't talk yourself into letting anger or a wounded ego, make your choices for you. BTW, I gave my marriage a "10% chance of surviving" in 2006, and I meant it.
But I'm still here. Yes you can turn things around, but take in the information we give you. Process it and don't skim over the "harder parts".
Give this simple but radically different approach to marital problems --- a real chance.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
