Oh boy, I see a lot of myself in those descriptions. Do you think that might have been a factor in all of our D's? I have made a concerted effort NOT to get in the middle of situations where I would normally have jumped in with both feet trying to fix 'the problem' as I perceive it. It has led to a much better R between me and Gabe and between me and Marc. This whole driver's license issue with Marc has been pushing my anxiety level to the top and I've done everything I can to help correct the problems but only to the point of doing the parts that Marc couldn't do himself.

It's very interesting to me that so many of us seem to have this trait.

Discuss..... grin


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!