Thanks for the votes of confidence, everyone. That moment of awkwardness felt really, really awkward. It was hard not to think that I should step up and make a move since he feels that I haven't been physically intimate with him enough.

Maybell, your point about wanting to be a fixer is right on. I always want to fix things for everyone, but as you say, I can't fix this for him and taking all the blame on myself won't help matters. He needs to figure things out for himself right now. Maybe the time away will be a good start on that.


M - 34
H - 36
Together 10 years
Married 4 years
BD - March, 2014