I look at it this way. As a father and husband it is my responsibility to take care of my family. That means my kids, my wife, and if anything is left, me. Your kids will always be your kids. Your wife does not want to be your wife anymore. She wants out of your family. Part of being out of your family means she drops on your priority list. That is not punishment that is just the reality of family vs non family.


Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16