Thanks Oad! I am spiritual and believe in that too but sometimes it's hard for me not to add my own feelings to the mix. I am just a very "zero tolerance for BS" kinda person. I don't care for mind games and I'm not empathetic toward adults who should know better but choose to turn a blind eye.
I have my own acct. but haven't taken the step to separate from the joint due to obvious reasons surrounding the new house. I could care less what he thinks about how I'm spending it but I don't appreciate being lectured or scolded. I just want to say "What about your arrangement here do you not agree with?"
It's funny you should mention Solona beach. I'm in it's neighboring city, Encinitas. I absolutely love it here and want to stay. Been taking advantage of beach runs in the morning and any time I need to do some reflective thinking. Just being on the freeway with the windows down and feeling the cool breeze is enough to rejuvenate me. I don't surf though because I have this irrational fear of being swept up by the current and drowning. Eek. Are you still in CA?
I want to have an angry day too but it's just too darn pretty out today to spend it in anger. I'm sure it's easier for me to say that since I'm miles away from my source of anguish and i'm kid free until the 16th of August. Think happy thoughts of surfing! What would your life be like if you were surfing again and where would your W fit in?
