She's now pushing for legal separation (co-habiting). She's very upset that I contacted the OMW behind her back. She says I don't trust her (no kidding I don't). She agrees that divorce is a big decision not to be taken lightly and we agreed to separate for several months and see where we are after then. She refuses to stop seeing the OM, but I can't push her on that subject (she only gets more defensive).
I also cannot give her the idea that I'm "looking around". I want to give her the impression that I'm still hurt over this, but I'm ready to move on if she leaves. I gave her full indication that I'm still going through the emotional shock of the situation. I've also found comfort talking with her father, whom she has told me (and the OM) that he is the only man she trusts 100%. Her father is opposed to the affair and wants nothing more than for her and I to work things out.
M: 15 years BD: 6/25/14 EA/PA: starts 5/14/14 11/30/14 - A ends 5/15/15 - D is finalized. 11/28/15 - Start of new LTR with a wonderful woman (and still going strong)!
