You cannot think of it as 'where would she be right now without you' I know its easy to adopt that line of thinking. Maybe she would have married a billionaire. Maybe she would have married a movie producer and be super famous. Where would YOU be had you not met her? Maybe you would have married a crack whore. So that line of thinking is not productive
Think about how you felt when you saw her looking happy and all fufu. Now do that for yourself. She will think the same thing. She wont say it, but she will not be able to help it because you were once the apple of her eye, and in some ways, deep down, still are.
Be the fufu guy she loved once!
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16
