Okay so here's my question. How can I be the better choice when the OP is 22 years old and is a model with a damn near flawless body? My wife is finally getting the sex she's always wanted. It's partially my fault. I packed on the pounds after we got married and my wife lost her physical attraction for me. She said sex with me felt obligated and that I was the only one enjoying it. Even if I do get back down to my original marriage weight, which I am working on now, I will never look like the OP. Now that she's tasted that forbidden pleasure why would she ever give that up to come back to me? And even if she does give it up won't she always just be miserable and longing for that guy even when she is with me?