Thanks Wonka and owl. I do have a DB coach although I haven't spoken with her for some time. I do better at times than I do at others with the whole detachment thing. My life is very full right now, my time with my kids is amazing and I'm so thankful that my W and I sharing them week to week. She and I are getting to be friends again which is also a huge thing that I am thankful for.
Wonka, you're 100% right, I don't need to try so hard. Just keep doing what I'm doing, I'm very happy with where I'm at right now and I think I can keep getting better.
Me-40,W-37 D7, D5, S3 Separated Oct 3/2013 T 11 YRS M 7 YRS