I know some advice might be confusing. When people come here and have a S who's in an affair, the general advice is to look at yourself, your role in what happened. That's still valid in your case but for the majority of those who end up here, it's been years of R neglect.
It's been years of the S not having a conversation about what's going on, why they feel neglected.
You're already in trouble and you're still in the "honeymoon" phase.
I'm interested to hear what she had to say.
I see your point.
It feels the honeymoon phase was phased out early by just spending every night in at my house. It quite quickly becomes same old same old sat in. She told me she wanted to be appreciated and adored (not over the top, just generally) and I never did it.
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14