I know some advice might be confusing. When people come here and have a S who's in an affair, the general advice is to look at yourself, your role in what happened. That's still valid in your case but for the majority of those who end up here, it's been years of R neglect.
It's been years of the S not having a conversation about what's going on, why they feel neglected.
You're already in trouble and you're still in the "honeymoon" phase.
I'm interested to hear what she had to say.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss