And as for his "mystery appointment", I really don't know what it was.
I may never know. But it was something... and the Sunday before he started to say something important, then trailed off...
If he wants me to know about it, he'll tell me when he feels the time is right.
IF that's what it was, it's going to take some time for him to digest what they tell him, and see if he feels there is any hope for him to improve his ability to be in a real R with a woman. And of course, there would be a lot of treatment and work for him to do.
I do HOPE however. I really do!
And as for the "baggage" again.
It's OK to have it, as long as it's not too heavy to get on the airplane.
He would have to learn to cope with it, and not let his fears and phobias continue to hinder his ability to enjoy life.
---GGG
Me 54 Him 63 M 23 T 29 0 Kids Funny Farm of Rescues 12/12 OW-- 5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied 9/13 Proof OW: ENDED 2/14 Got D papers on my BD I kicked him out for my sanity 9/14 He wants to "talk"?