IH, your W is very conflicted. I heard almost all of things verbatim when WAW left me.
Keep in mind, the way she feels, is the way she FEELS RIGHT NOW. Feelings can/do change on a daily basis.
I honestly don't think it's over. I really don't. She's processing her feelings right now, it's obvious she confused at the moment.
She's hurting right now. If she's hurting, there something still there. Now if you told me she seems completely indifferent, I might think otherwise. I just don't think she's done.
Keep letting her vent and just listen to her. It will help her process her feelings.