ItHurts, I'm so sorry you are going through this! The sad reality is that we cannot save or make our WAS's happy. They have to do that on there own. My H has very low self worth and a lot of what your W said is similar to his statements. Good luck! You've done a great job finding your own life and you deserve happiness.
Me: 30 H: 35 M: 5 years S2 Signs of MLC started Feb 2014 BD - PA July 2014 Piecing/reconciling late July 2014