You say this happened because you weren't paying enough attention to her-if that's so, why? You're in a new R and you say you love her and everything is great...but you're not paying her enough attention.
Why is that? There may be valid reasons. What are they? I'm not saying you need to list them all here but think about it.
What is "enough" attention for her?
Having the kids and still dealing with your STBX, do you have enough "extra" attention that a R requires?
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
