mlp, that was my H and I too, everyone would say they wanted what we had, and now we are here, and then I look at most of the r around me and think "how the he!! are still together? " smh.... makes no sense. And it's nice to hear in the present context that the grass really isn't greener. it's raining and cold and dark here right now, it's not really contributing to being in a good place mentally, I usually love 5 he sound of rain on the roof at night, love to snuggle next to h and just relax. missing him right now, nothing in particular, just him.
