It makes me crazy.

A while ago he asked me to come up with three ideas for something that we could do together that would make me happy.

I thought and thought. All morning he would send me messages: "Any ideas?"

So finally I sent him three ideas. Things that were pretty out of the box for the two of us, but that would be fun.

He sent me back a message that we would definitely do one of them that weekend. (Go for a bike ride and then go out to breakfast at a diner.)

We totally didn't do it.

It's so frustrating to watch him do this. I know that his head is just stuck on some crazy loop right now, but this is NOT the man to whom I was married for 18 years!!!! It really is as if aliens have taken him.