Dawgy, news flash. Sandi is not being hard on you. She's giving you a well deserved 2x4. Listen to her. She helped turn my sitch around.

Remember this is a marathon. It may take months to see results. Make a plan. Follow your plan. Detach and GAL. Change yourself. Improve yourself. Don't focus on her at all.

Back off. Way off. We all fall down from time to time. It happens. When in crisis consult your plan, not your emotions.


M: 59 W: 53
M: 9 yrs
T: 14 yrs
No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine)
W moved out 11/18/2013
D-Day 12/14/2013
W moved back home 12/1/2014