Dealing with ongoing affair -which may now be over

[PeterV2]

Thanks Dev. I did continue my previous thread for a few more posts but it seems now to have locked up.

W is leaving for a vacation tomorrow for 9 days - visiting a common friend in Miami. Helped her pack tonight. Had a bite to eat together. I was cool, calm & collected. We hugged & kissed good-bye and I went home. She sent me a couple of texts before going to bed. Threw me a kiss (:*)

I'm going to stay detached while she's gone. I'm fairly confident that she's not meeting the OM there. Just the way she was talking about what she plans on doing for the next 9 days. Sleeping for the first 3 - she is sleep deprived and burnt out from 18 months of non-stop working without a break. Whatever she does makes no difference to me anyway at this point as long as she has a chance to clear her head. I'm just going to continue on with GAL and enjoying myself.

When she returns next Thursday, I'll be leaving the following morning on a 4 day hike with my 2 sons. She said she's planning on meeting us at the end of the hike on day 4. We'll see if she follows through.

Yeah I had a rough Saturday night. I'm better now. Spent a lot of time in bed on Sunday. I guess I just needed to get some stuff out of my system. I guess sometimes I spew too.