Yep. Tell us, twin: what do you want right now?

Being warm, friendly and neighbor-like is for people who are trying to make positive changes in their own lives and perspective, yes, but it's also to re-attract their spouses and get their Ms back on track. I'm not saying you should resort to being nasty, but why WOULDN'T you be distant toward your H right now?

It's gonna be hard to continue saying "get out of the house and my life, you freaking selfish turd" in a warm way, with a smile on your face, right?

So what is your ultimate goal? Still to get him to leave?


M: 40 H: 44
Married 14 years
S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M
2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart
Piecing: April 2014