Hey Peter,

I'm a bit confused. Because it seems like some of your posts disappeared. I thought I read you had a decent anniversary, and pursued your W a bit to stay over?

Just wanted to let you know, I know your anniversary was a tough time, but I've seen you post some great messages on detachment and affairs. You've got all the concepts and your doing great. We all backslide. It happens. The thing that will make the biggest difference is what isn't said. Your actions, and your recognizing and making changes with those.

The one piece of advice I would say, is really try to avoid basing your mood on her actions. It's very tough, but the solid strong Peter is going to be more attractive to your W than the controlling, moody Peter. Be the man you are, walk the walk and talk the talk. Keep up the good work.

Dev


Me: 40
Wife: 38
M: 10. T: 18
S: 8, D: 6, S: 4
BD 02/01/14
Asked her to leave 02/01/14

Keeping the dream alive