CSan - Filed, moving and life goes on....

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Thanks Meghan but I am no where near piecing as I am waiting for the decree to be signed :-(
I feel a bit unsure about things in general and I wonder if this is normal? I still care for my STBXH but I am afraid that by being intimate it is ruining a possible R and/or it being successful but I'm getting ahead of myself. I am at loss how to start over with my STBXH. My STBXH did text to check on us after a tornado was spotted here. I was so scared but thank God no one in town was hurt. We texted back and forth a little with me responding last and nothing back from him is how it goes. Then a few hours later he text me that he is bringing the couch over with his friend. They brought it in and at one place my H said Careful Babe which was his pet name for me. I didn't acknowledge it just helped put the couch down. They left and my H told me that I could stop by the old house for my laptop. I went by and him and his son were moving the dressers. In the end my H brought over 2 dressers, my recliners and a nightstand with his son. He said we shouldn't be sitting on the floor. My STBXH even helped me set up the dressers in the boys room where I told him Thank you very much and he gave me a kind of long hug and said he wanted to make sure the boys and I were comfortable. He sent me a random text this afternoon and then mentioned bringing over more things today. He just called about things to make a roast in the crock pot and I told him what I do. He then brought up My D 17 having her laptop as I had said that I was keeping it. Well that changed because my 1st XH said that she needed it for school over there as him and his wife needed each of theirs for school. My STBXH said I thought you were keeping it. And i told him why but he said She probably bitched about it to her dad. I didn't say anything else and he said he would try to bring the stuff over tonight and he said he had to go. My S 12 asked to talk to him and they spoke for a few minutes before hanging up. That's one thing that my STBXH hates is people changing their minds and not doing what they said they were going to do. I'm not too concerned about how he feels about it as I know how he feels but it didn't matter as it was between me and my 1st XH. I am just going to keep going and I can't control or change his opinion or mind about things. Sometimes I think that until he deals with the anger/resentment he has with me and my family, we can't fully restart a new R. And if he can't ever get over things, then it's probably not a good thing for a future R for us