I can see how and why you are confused here. Nothing to do with you being comfortable on your own at all.
Originally Posted By: GoatGal
I don't understand why me being more comfortable on my own would have anything to do with him avoiding stimuli though
What I meant by avoiding stimuli is that he might be moving away from porn and trying to reconnect with you by viewing you as a "normal" woman..not the pornofied version as you say here.