You guys are awesome !!!!!! You have me laughing like crazy. Actually when I was blowing up at him the other night I told him that just looking at him makes me angry I couldn't even imagine how furious I would be if I tried to be intimate with him.

And of course he didn't leave........

I am soooooooo tired right now but I just couldn't be around H so I told him I was going to the gym. (Already ran 3miles today) I am sitting in the parking lot just catching up on email/internet stuff. Will splash some water on my head and go home in about an hour or so.

So what's everyone's opinion on me just being downright cold/distant/almost mean to him instead of the "business like" or nice neighbor attitude DB usually teaches?


Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction