1. What are the things you cannot control about today and while he is away?

His feelings
His behaviours
What he thinks about me
Whether he comes back after his trip
What he tells his family about us
Whether he misses me as his wife or just as someone he spends a lot of time with
Whether there's a chance of him being willing to work on the relationship

2. What are the things you can control?

How I behave and act towards him
How I respond to him
How I present myself
Whether I get in contact with him
How I spend the time while he's away

3. What healthy things can you do to take advantage of the time while he is away?

GAL
Spend time with friends and family
Exercise
Meditate
Get some work done
Try out a new hobby or activity
Clean the apartment


M - 34
H - 36
Together 10 years
Married 4 years
BD - March, 2014