1. What are the things you cannot control about today and while he is away?
His feelings His behaviours What he thinks about me Whether he comes back after his trip What he tells his family about us Whether he misses me as his wife or just as someone he spends a lot of time with Whether there's a chance of him being willing to work on the relationship
2. What are the things you can control?
How I behave and act towards him How I respond to him How I present myself Whether I get in contact with him How I spend the time while he's away
3. What healthy things can you do to take advantage of the time while he is away?
GAL Spend time with friends and family Exercise Meditate Get some work done Try out a new hobby or activity Clean the apartment
M - 34 H - 36 Together 10 years Married 4 years BD - March, 2014