Thank you 25, I didn't see it as pursuit, but I ca see what you're saying. I still have no concrete evidence that there is an ow at the moment, and I'm not about to start snooping again to find out if there is, I don't check his Fb anymore and only look at the bank accounts wwhen I need to transfer funds. The pole dancinpg classes are part of my GAL, loved it, am covered in bruises this morning, I've gone out to dinner a couple of times with friends, kids, work and house hunting is taking up a bit of time right now too, also re reading Dr, does that count as a GAL?