Lol yeah I think we all do that sometimes.

Thanks! Right now Im not planning anything out for the big move. Im just trying to take it one day at a time and let her gradually feel it out. I think she is pretty close to being ready to get back together but doesnt want any part of the apartment that we live in currently. I wont be pushing anything with her. Its going well right now and still moving forward.

As far as slipping back into old habits...This one will be tough, but I know I can make sure it doesnt happen. Im not at all considering myself done with working on myself. Not even close. I think that I have to keep in my mind that she is really the one that I want to spend the rest of my life with and that I cant take her for granted anymore. I also cant stop working on the relationship either. The thing is, she likes the new me alot, I can tell. Shes excited to be around me, maybe more so than when we first met. I want to keep that going because when I am happy its contagious and she is also happy.

I look at it like that too. I think this is really a gift from God. We have been given the chance to start again with the knowledge of the mistakes that were made in the previous relationship and work on not going down that same road.


M:33
W:30
T:10 M:2
B/D: 5/27/14
S: 5/28/14
Wife moved back in 7/18/14