well I wasn't home when W returned. I ended up showing up at night, she offered a beer and I said no thank you, she asked my plans for sunday and I said not sure but I have plans...then she asked who is coming with me and I responded a lot of people. Yesterday she wanted to go to our daughters cheerleading practice
here is where I fudged up all the ground I gained...I told her lets all of us go together then have dinner...she said she was going to go earlier and hang out with the other moms(friends of ours). so she said for me to meet her there later...so I told her if she was going to do her thing with the other moms I would just do my thing and meet up at night at the house. So later on she asked if I wanted to eat there with the girls, I went we had some beers and she really didn't talk much so I just did my thing with the girls and left...today is dead quiet, I felt like she began to ignore me later in the night...I feel I may have stayed to long and she realized she still has me there...time to detach and continue being indeferent...man this is hard to do sometimes...urghhhhhh
Me: 42 W: 39 D: 2 age 6 and 9 D-Day: Dec 29 13 Seperated: 3/20/14 Mediation retainer : 5/20/14 She filed: 06/25/14