You know, of course, that you could have spent this whole time developing some kind of relationship with your W. Since you didn't do anything, it shouldn't have been a surprise that she was making plans without consulting you, which amazes me because you are BOTH her parents.
In terms of your D, she has adopted the role of parent and you the child. You were pouting on here and complaining while she came up with a plan for a relationship with you. This is another part of your situation that you haven't changed either.
When you were attracted to that one girl who was half your age, I really don't think you're ready for any kind of relationship. I mean if you can't figure out how to have a relationship with your D, how are you going to have one with another person if you haven't changed? New people always come with their own baggage and if you think that the next one is going to be perfect and problem-free, then think again.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.