No, I meant OW would drop those items off to the kids at summer camp since she is dropping off her kids there as well. I will not let her within one foot of my front door. No way. The only reason I let J in the other night is because he helped with my stove. Otherwise, it's outside for him. He, so far, does call before he comes over and knocks and doesn't just waltz in. But I keep my door locked, just in case.
I think they deserve each other too. They can wallow in their own madness. I just wish they didn't pull the kids into it. Our kids and hers as well. Both sets of kids do not like being there. They are resisting and resentful, while J and OW are trying to force them to like each other. I don't know why those two are forcing the kids. That only makes things worse. I know when I was a kid if I was forced to be around people I didn't like, I became very angry and resentful. I can only imagine the frustration my kids are feeling, and I imagine her kids feel the same.
OW and her kids call J by a pet name. Without saying what my ex's name is, they call him a cutesie name that repeats his first name twice. We will say it is "J-J". S told me about it and I laughed. But it was nothing until I heard OW call him this at D's party. It sounded like she was calling a Pomeranian. I almost peed my pants. LOL. He must be in love with her if he is willing to let her call him that in public. How humiliating.
I will never understand this mess of a life he created. It's not my circus anymore. I wish I could keep the kids out of it.
WH
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"
