WAH with OW/EA - advice wanted! :)

[LisaB]

Hi cq1! So right again as usual! I hope you are doing well.

You know what you need when someone stomps on your heart? Tells you they don't love you anymore and maybe never did. Goes and sleeps with someone younger and sexier than you? You know what you need?

You need someone younger, hotter and sexier than THEM to come hit on YOU. Oh yeah. That's right.

Well, it doesn't erase the pain but it makes it just a tiny bit better.

cq1, I hope you are getting out there and trying to enjoy life, or at least pretend to. It helps. Maybe some cutie will flirt with you and make you feel just a little bit better. Not maybe, I'm sure of it!

H is messaging really inane things in the past days, just a few words to make small talk or stay in touch, I guess. I am trying to be polite, friendly and distant, to seem like I am fine and dandy. To react to him like I would to any friend sending small talk chats. And not asking him "how are you?" or any questions in return. We'll see. I don't feel comfortable completely ignoring his messages but waiting several hours and then replying really mellow is ok I guess. It sends the same type of message: I don't care about you.

Hope everyone is doing good! Love and hugs,
Lisa