Heather.. no, of course its not healthy to obsess about the pies, etc.... but, did i EAT IT? >>> NO!! I am proud that I AM FINALLY able to say NO to him (one month solid). It may still be my obsession (ATM) but it is NO LONGER my fix! You don't get to keep telling me what I have & have not accomplished. I have dropped the rope and he is no longer able to draw me in. It doesn't matter if you see it or not. I know how I feel.
Starsky.... I too can be a quick study. When you said 3-4 weeks ago to kick his "arse" to the curb, I began doing just that ... I have not slipped. I have maintained the course & it was just this week & weekend that he has responded back to my declines with pursuit. I am not sure why you say that I am stubborn/unwilling... I have done exactly what you prescribed. I was extremely careful to follow. Yes, you have told me what he may be thinking previously...but not since I got the guts to say no, this weekend to his date offers.
I am hoping that you reconsider or at least tell me why you feel I am not listening to you.
Ken... I do not need anyones attention.
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M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
