The reason I was asking about message sending is based on the advice of teaching others how to treat you. So, wondered... what did I teach him. The message I understand is to not care... about him. I get that. But I still wonder what my new disposition says...its brand new to me.
Also, when you suggested that "old" comment, it was only 3 weeks ago when he pulled his sexual moves on me... nothing has changed since then. He has been the same, and just this weekend trying to temp check with me. I am not convinced its not a good statement to still use. I just wonder if it makes it sound like I am "waiting" for him to make changes... that he may/ or may not be capable of. And, by saying this does it make me look like I have no self value, by that statement?
Starsky... please advise me the way you did with pearlharbr.
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Heather: let's pretend I have a food addiction... I still need to eat. Its about control.... self control.
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M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
