When I posted to you in the past it was about you getting to a place where you felt strong and in control of you. That your W, no matter what she did, could only control you if you let her.
Don't lose that T, the strong in control of his life T, the one with good boundaries.
((( )))
Between March and now that what I have been doing. The interactions between W and I are worlds apart from what they were.
My W never kissed someone (AFAIK) but she did leave with my kids and stated the same issues GF has. Maybe I'm not destined to be able to give long term affection or I need to work out why I don't. I beleive they are both correct, I feel it myself.
It's wierd this all feels a bit like when W left tbh. Even wierder is I feel like it's something that can be gotten used to. I have the same thoughts but I discuss them with myself. It's actually interesting to a certain degree.
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14
