"I have let go of his pant leg (for real) just under a month ago. "
this is BS. plain and simple.
You cannot claim to have dropped the rope a month ago, and then the next sentence is all about him. and his water, and his cat, and his texting, and his real estate woman.
sure, you throw in a random paragraph about your friends band, but its just some crap you think will appease us. then its all about him again.
no one here cares the least bit about him.
you cant say you dropped the rope, WHEN you cant spend more than 1 paragraph talking something other than him. when you can go weeks without mentioning what he's doing, then you've gotten somewhere.
but instead you lie to him, you react to him, you base your entire life around him and his actions. you spend all your hours obsessing over him.
and when everyone here points it out, you deny. you ignore.
but its BS.
"In a ham and eggs breakfast, the hen is involved, but the pig is committed".