I see I was unclear, thanks for giving me the opportunity to clarify. What I meant was slow down in the future, don't introduce people to your kids until you're sure, but I guess you thought you were sure.

I'd think very slowly and clearly about where you want to go with this and why you're in this position. Don't you deserve better?

If you were a new member and had been married for a month and she did this, I don't think I'd even respond to the post. Definite red flag.

It's not a walk in the park, believe me, I know. You have to think of you and your kids and what's best for your family.

She's shown you a bit of her character, what you do with that is up to you.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss