Glad you replied Starsky... thanks for your reply!! (I like it)... I also like what you said before:

I recall it was you who stated I should just say "because I decided I want more"... but doesn't that suggest that I want more .... from him? (as usual)... Thats how he will interpret it.

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Also.... what message did I send on the weekend? Saying "no thanks" to many of his suggestions. It felt good, but it also gave me butterflies. Recalling the whole pealharbr story, and how you recommend that we reject the WAS, treat them like we were dumping them now. Any further suggestions for today? What can I expect from him now? I think this is what is giving me butterflies... the unknown.

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M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)