Wow MLP , thank you soooo much for that post . We have soooo much in common with our sitches . My wife and I too are still in the same bed . She too has told me she loves me the way that I am . And yes it seems so , as you put it " wackadoo " She expected that i could understand that she wants this affair and I should be a good enough spouse to support her .If never seen such bizarre mood swings and mindless acting out like everything is just peachy . Then the array of emotions that set in at times . Its a roller coaster hun. My wife has been having this affair for seven and a half months .( ive known for about 4 ) It kills me a little bit everyday . But i agree with you whole heartedly that If we do pull it together it will be a new me and a new her in a new relationship with each other , Hats off to you , you are a very strong woman THx again . I look forward to hearing from you some more
Me 45 W 45 Son 16 Son 14 Married 23 together 27 W threatened sep several times W still at home A discovered Mar 17 2014 A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )